tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18016647.post2689364685683647419..comments2023-12-07T15:49:32.119-08:00Comments on Photo For You Ebay Store: It takes two...PsychDoctorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01465748334834147152noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18016647.post-68105768294448785922010-07-26T19:04:19.212-07:002010-07-26T19:04:19.212-07:00I know...I would die of a heart attack...I know...I would die of a heart attack...PsychDoctorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01465748334834147152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18016647.post-2370566000035086992010-07-26T08:40:17.680-07:002010-07-26T08:40:17.680-07:00oh my gosh, how scary would that be to have your s...oh my gosh, how scary would that be to have your spouse run up that much debt?!Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11692897932694365285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18016647.post-2089040317075571902010-07-23T12:32:41.651-07:002010-07-23T12:32:41.651-07:00I also believe that money troubles amass when one ...I also believe that money troubles amass when one partner takes over the finances. I think both partners should be involved in managing the finances, seeing where money's going, and budgeting. It's hard to do if you don't have time to sit down, but I believe it would be beneficial. (We don't do it- I pay everything, but JD doesn't get where all the money goes...)Lindsay Logichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15322922481927457241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18016647.post-229718238217843532010-07-23T12:31:25.145-07:002010-07-23T12:31:25.145-07:00I know a girl that spends a lot of money behind he...I know a girl that spends a lot of money behind her husband's back- we ordered sweaters together on her Maurice's account and she changed the statements to go to her e-mail, rather than to her house, because her husband won't be making as much money this year and she didn't want him to know. As a working woman, I will confess that sometimes it's easier not to ask for money, but I also know that if I got new windows, it would have to be a unanimous decision. We may not ask each other on small purchases, but on large purchases, we have to agree. This guy probably comes from a relationship that is very open about those kinds of things, and you're probably passive, and look at it from all options- it will increase your home value, decrease your energy costs, etc. It's also hard to reign in spending, when you're both working. Couples who only have one working spouse don't understand it.Lindsay Logichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15322922481927457241noreply@blogger.com